
Co-Founder Equity Mistakes to Avoid with Michael Seibel | Startup School
In order to get your startup off the ground it's critical to keep your co-founders motivated. One of the best ways to do that is to figure out a fair co-founder equity split. In this episode of Startup School, YC Group Partner Michael Seibel explains the ins and outs of co-founder equity, why it's important to be generous with that equity, and how to avoid bad advice that can lead to co-founder breakups.
Table of Contents
🎯 What's the Secret to Keeping Co-Founders Happy for Years?
Core Philosophy: Be Generous with Co-Founder Equity
The biggest mistake founders make is being stingy with equity during the most delicate time in a startup's life. This creates resentment and causes talented co-founders to leave just when breakthrough moments might happen.
The Three Types of Founders:
- The Jedi Founder - Generous with co-founder equity
- The Dumb Founder - Also generous with co-founder equity
- The Midwit Founder - Overthinks skill sets, contributions, time commitments, and networks
"What you're trying to do is motivate your founding team to work extremely hard when it looks for many of the first couple years like things are not working." - Michael Seibel
Key Principles:
- Motivation Over Calculation: Focus on keeping co-founders motivated for 4+ years, not just today
- Forward-Looking: Most of your company's work hasn't been completed yet
- Generous = Smart: The more generous you are, the more you can expect strong founders to stay motivated
Important Context:
This advice specifically applies to:
- Tech software startups expecting VC funding
- Pre-product market fit companies in their beginning stages
- Founding team conversations happening early in the company
⚖️ How Do You Avoid Creating Resentful Co-Founders?
The Psychology of Long-Term Motivation
The critical mistake founders make is not thinking about how to motivate their team today AND tomorrow. You're typically giving people equity they'll earn over four years, so you need to prevent future resentment.
The Resentment Scenario:
"I don't have enough equity, I'm not motivated... I have this amount of equity and the CEO has four times more but I'm grinding every day and I've been here since the beginning." - Michael Seibel
The Solution - Close to Equal Splits:
- Go for close to equal equity splits (doesn't have to be exactly equal)
- Think beyond today: What will keep them motivated over all four years?
- Prevent the "grinding founder" syndrome: When co-founders feel undervalued despite equal effort
The CEO's Real Job:
Not just convincing co-founders to work on your company today, but ensuring they stay motivated for the entire journey and hopefully much longer.
"The more generous you are, the more you can expect a strong founder to stay motivated." - Michael Seibel
🛡️ Why Do ALL Founders Need Vesting and Cliffs?
Essential Protection Mechanisms
Even if everyone likes each other and believes nothing will go wrong, vesting and cliffs are non-negotiable best practices that protect the entire founding team.
How Vesting Works:
- Equity is earned over time (not given all at once)
- If you leave early, you don't get all the equity
- Standard timeline: Four-year vesting period
How Cliffs Work:
- One-year cliff is most common
- No equity earned until you hit the one-year mark
- Protects against early departures that could destroy the cap table
"Giving away founder equity is not something that you should be innovating on." - Michael Seibel
Why Life Happens:
- Family circumstances change
- People get sick
- Performance issues arise
- Sometimes people have to leave even when they don't want to
The Protection Factor:
Vesting and cliffs give founders the ability to let other founders go or for founders to leave without destroying the company's equity structure.
"Life happens, crazy happens sometimes." - Michael Seibel
👥 Who Actually Deserves the Co-Founder Title?
The Essential Team Test
The co-founder title shouldn't be given out casually. Your founding team should be the smallest number of people who can build an MVP, get it to customers, and start learning.
The Essential Founder Framework:
- Can help build an MVP
- Can get product in customers' hands
- Can contribute to learning and iteration
Red Flags to Watch For:
- Teams with 5-7 co-founders: Something weird is happening
- Conversations haven't happened: People avoiding difficult decisions
- Seven people are NOT essential for getting a product to customers
The Generous Equity Strategy:
Being generous with equity actually helps you remove "co-founders" who:
- Aren't truly essential to the founding team
- Should be employees instead of founders
- Don't deserve the co-founder title
"The co-founder title is not something that should just be given out willy-nilly." - Michael Seibel
🚀 What's the Real Purpose of Co-Founder Equity?
Future Work, Not Past Contributions
The fundamental misunderstanding most founders have is thinking equity rewards past work. In reality, equity is about motivating people for work they haven't done yet.
The Reality Check:
"In almost every case when you're giving out co-founder equity, most of the work in your company hasn't been completed." - Michael Seibel
The Mindset Shift:
- Equity = Future Motivation (not past rewards)
- Most work lies ahead of the founding team
- Motivation matters more than historical contributions
CEO Responsibilities:
The Captain of the Ship:
- Must have ability to fire non-performing founders
- Should reserve this right regardless of equity split
- Needs ultimate accountability for company success
The Accountability Factor:
"There has to be someone who's ultimately held accountable and they need to be given the responsibility to let people go who aren't performing." - Michael Seibel
If You Can't Accept This:
"If you're not willing to join a team under these circumstances... you're not understanding the seriousness of a company or maybe you should go start a company and be the CEO." - Michael Seibel
💎 Key Insights
Essential Insights:
- Be generous with co-founder equity - The biggest mistake is being stingy during the delicate early stages, which causes talented people to leave when success might be just around the corner
- Equity motivates future work, not past contributions - Most of your company's work hasn't been completed yet, so focus on keeping people motivated for the 4+ year journey ahead
- Use vesting and cliffs for ALL founders - Even if everyone gets along, life happens and these mechanisms protect the entire team and cap table
Actionable Insights:
- Aim for close to equal equity splits to prevent resentment and maintain long-term motivation
- Implement standard 4-year vesting with 1-year cliffs for all founders without exception
- Ensure the CEO has authority to remove non-performing founders regardless of equity arrangements
- Limit co-founder titles to truly essential team members who can build MVP and get it to customers
- Don't overthink complex calculations about contributions, skills, and networks - generosity trumps complexity
📚 References
People Mentioned:
- Michael Seibel - YC Group Partner providing the core advice on co-founder equity splits and startup best practices
Companies & Organizations:
- Y Combinator (YC) - Startup accelerator providing the framework and best practices discussed in this content
Concepts & Frameworks:
- Four-Year Vesting Schedule - Standard timeline for earning equity over time in startups
- One-Year Cliff - Common protection mechanism preventing equity distribution until one year of service
- Co-Founder vs Employee Distinction - Framework for determining who deserves founder-level equity and title
- MVP Development Strategy - Minimum viable product approach to defining essential founding team members
💔 What Happens When Co-Founders Break Up?
Pre-Product Market Fit Breakup Guidelines
The most responsible thing co-founders can do is have honest conversations about what will happen if things don't work out. Here are YC's proven guidelines for handling co-founder breakups in pre-product market fit companies.
Before the One-Year Cliff:
Token Equity Only (0.5% - 2%):
- Extremely typical for departing founders to receive minimal equity
- Remember: No evidence the company will work yet
- Reality check: Vast majority of work still needs to be done
After One-Year Cliff, Pre-Product Market Fit:
Maximum 5% Retention:
- Departing founders should retain no more than 5% of the company
- Often requires giving back equity that was originally granted
- Rationale: So much work remains to be done
"The founder who's leaving can't help increase the value of the company anymore, so if they're holding a whole bunch of equity, they're basically reducing the chances of the company being successful and therefore reducing the value of their equity." - Michael Seibel
Standard Severance Practices:
- If fired: 1-3 months severance is reasonable
- If they leave voluntarily: Severance not typical (but possible)
📋 What Administrative Steps Must Happen During Breakups?
Required Legal and Governance Changes
Every founder who leaves or is fired should complete these essential steps to ensure clean separation and protect the remaining team.
Required Actions for ALL Departing Founders:
- Resign from the board - Clean governance structure
- Sign a release - Legal protection for both parties
- Grant proxy voting rights - Allow remaining founders to vote their shares
The Logic Behind Proxy Rights:
"Basically allowing the founders that are remaining to vote their shares." - Michael Seibel
CEO Departures - Special Considerations:
While it's typically non-CEO founders who leave or get fired, sometimes life happens to CEOs too.
"Sometimes it's the CEO, right? Life happens and so if that's the case, whoever the new CEO is has to kind of arrange this breakup accordingly." - Michael Seibel
CEO Expectations:
- Previous CEOs should understand these same expectations
- Sometimes CEOs screw up and need to be replaced
- Sometimes CEOs choose to leave voluntarily
- New CEO must arrange the breakup according to these guidelines
🚫 Why "My Co-Founder Agreed" Is a Terrible Reason for Unequal Splits?
The Most Common Bad Reason for Massive Inequality
The classic mistake: "I own 90% of the company, I asked my co-founder if they're willing to own 10%, they said yes, so everything's good, right?" This is a perfect example of optimizing for today instead of tomorrow.
The CEO's Fatal Flaw:
"As a CEO this is a perfect example of optimizing for today and not optimizing for tomorrow." - Michael Seibel
The Real Questions to Ask:
- Not: What is your co-founder happy with today?
- Instead: What will keep them excited in year three when everything sucks?
- Critical: What's going to keep them motivated to stay and work extremely hard?
The Tomorrow Mindset:
"As CEO you always have to be thinking about tomorrow regardless of whether your co-founder does and you probably should be more generous with your equity to compensate for when those bad times are happening." - Michael Seibel
The Motivation Challenge:
When the company hits rough patches (which it will), that 10% equity holder will question their commitment while watching the 90% holder reap the rewards of their equal effort.
💡 Is "I Came Up with the Idea" Worth 90% Equity?
Why Ideas Are Worthless and Execution Is Everything
One of the most common justifications for unequal splits: "It was my idea, they're just building it." This reveals a fundamental misunderstanding of what creates value in startups.
The Brutal Reality About Ideas:
"We get almost 30,000 companies apply to YC every six months and we see every idea that exists. It's extremely obvious that ideas are a dime a dozen and execution is the game here." - Michael Seibel
The Execution Truth:
Why Your Co-Founder Deserves More:
- That co-founder will be essential in executing the company
- If they're not essential, they shouldn't be a co-founder at all
- Execution differentiates successful companies from failed ones
The Value Creation Reality:
Ideas don't create value - turning ideas into working products that customers love creates value. Your "idea person" vs "execution person" distinction misses the point entirely.
"I came up with an idea is not a great reason for a 90/10 equity split." - Michael Seibel
⏰ Does Starting 6 Months Earlier Justify Massive Equity Differences?
Why Head Starts Don't Matter in the Long Game
Another common justification: "I started working 6 months before my co-founders, so I deserve a lot more equity. They weren't there at the beginning."
The Long Game Perspective:
"You still have to ask yourself how much work is left to be done. If this is a traditional tech software startup, then 99% of the work is left to be done." - Michael Seibel
The Journey Reality:
Time Scale That Actually Matters:
- 10-20-30 year journey if really successful
- 99% of work still remains to be done
- 6-month head start becomes insignificant in this context
The Math That Matters:
When you're looking at decades of building, iterating, scaling, and growing, does 6 months of early work really justify owning 3-4x more equity than someone who will grind alongside you for the next 10+ years?
"A difference in starting date of 6 months probably is not that significant when it comes to it." - Michael Seibel
💰 Should Salary Needs Determine Equity Splits?
Why Mixing Salary and Equity Creates Dangerous Precedents
The final common mistake: "My co-founder needs a salary and I don't, so they should get less equity." This fundamentally misunderstands the different purposes of salary versus equity.
The Clear Distinction:
"You should be thinking about salary and equity differently." - Michael Seibel
Salary vs. Equity Purposes:
Salary Function:
- Money needed to live - rent, food, basic survival
- Enables ability to work in your company
- Practical necessity for participation
Equity Function:
- Motivates extremely hard work and exceptional performance
- Compensates for below-market salary sacrifice
- Drives long-term commitment and dedication
"Salary is the money that someone needs to live... Equity is what's going to motivate them to work extremely hard and do extremely well and often get a below market salary." - Michael Seibel
The Dangerous Precedent:
"I never like to think about reducing someone's equity because they need more salary. I always like thinking about giving every person on the founding team the salary they [need]." - Michael Seibel
Why This Matters:
Creating equity inequality based on salary needs sets up resentment and demotivation exactly when you need maximum commitment from your founding team.
💎 Key Insights
Essential Insights:
- Plan for breakups before they happen - The most responsible thing co-founders can do is discuss breakup scenarios upfront using proven YC guidelines
- Pre-PMF departures should retain minimal equity - Before one-year cliff: 0.5-2%, after cliff but pre-PMF: maximum 5% to motivate remaining team
- "My co-founder agreed" optimizes for today, not tomorrow - Think about what will motivate them in year three when everything sucks, not what they accept today
Actionable Insights:
- Reject the "idea person" justification - Ideas are worthless; execution is everything, and YC sees 30,000+ identical ideas every six months
- Don't penalize salary needs with reduced equity - Salary covers survival needs, equity drives motivation and exceptional performance
- 6-month head starts don't justify massive inequality - In 10-30 year journeys, early timing advantages become statistically insignificant
- Require standard breakup procedures - All departing founders must resign from board, sign releases, and grant proxy voting rights
- Always think long-term motivation - CEOs must optimize for keeping co-founders excited through the inevitable rough patches
📚 References
People Mentioned:
- Michael Seibel - YC Group Partner providing guidelines on co-founder breakups and debunking bad equity split justifications
Companies & Organizations:
- Y Combinator (YC) - Startup accelerator that receives 30,000+ applications every six months and has developed proven breakup guidelines
Concepts & Frameworks:
- Pre-Product Market Fit Breakup Guidelines - YC's proven framework for handling equity when co-founders leave early-stage companies
- One-Year Cliff Protection - Standard vesting mechanism that determines equity retention upon departure
- Proxy Voting Rights - Legal mechanism allowing remaining founders to vote shares of departed co-founders
- Salary vs. Equity Distinction - Framework separating survival needs (salary) from motivation mechanisms (equity)
- Long-term Motivation Strategy - CEO responsibility to think beyond immediate agreement to sustained co-founder engagement
👴 Does Age and Experience Justify Unequal Equity Splits?
The Experience vs. Motivation Balance
"I'm older and much more experienced than my co-founder" - This is arguably the trickiest justification for unequal splits because experience does create real value, but it can't override fundamental motivation principles.
What Experience Actually Brings:
- Can contribute significantly to company success
- Helps with fundraising and investor relationships
- Provides capabilities younger co-founders often lack
- Opens doors that would otherwise stay closed
The Co-Founder Reality Check:
"If you're making this person a co-founder, that means that they're going to have to be a key contributor to the team. That should mean you couldn't do it without them." - Michael Seibel
The Motivation Imperative:
"So you should be very careful about how motivated that person's going to be. You should be generous with equity as a result." - Michael Seibel
The Experience Trap:
If someone is truly essential (co-founder level), their long-term motivation matters more than acknowledging past achievements. A demotivated "experienced" co-founder becomes a liability, not an asset.
💰 Why Raising Money Doesn't Change the Equity Game?
The Fundraising Illusion
"I hired my co-founder after raising some money" - People are shocked to learn that fundraising doesn't dramatically improve your odds of success.
The Brutal Fundraising Reality:
"Fundraising doesn't massively change your chances of being successful. There are lots and lots and lots of startups that raise money and very few that go on to generate a billion dollars in revenue." - Michael Seibel
The Math That Matters:
Even With Significant Funding:
- $100,000 raised: 99% of work still remains
- $500,000 raised: 99% of work still remains
- Post-fundraising hiring: Doesn't change the fundamental equation
"Even if you have $100,000, $500,000 in investment, 99% of the work is still left to be done." - Michael Seibel
The Launch Fallacy:
"I hired my co-founder post-launch... that first launch of MVP is just the beginning of the journey." - Michael Seibel
Why Launch Changes Nothing:
Getting your MVP out is literally just step one. The real work of building a sustainable, scalable business that customers love happens after launch.
🧠 What's the Real Pattern Behind All These Bad Excuses?
The Short-Term Thinking Trap
All these justifications for unequal equity splits reveal the same fundamental flaw: short-term thinking when you need long-term strategy.
The Common Thread:
"I think that all of these answers are a flavor of the same thing. It's a flavor of short-term thinking." - Michael Seibel
What Separates Great Founders:
The Long-Term Mindset:
- Best founders are long-term thinkers
- Not only thinking about today but about tomorrow
- Thinking about co-founders' needs even when co-founders aren't
"The best founders are thinking about their co-founders' needs even if those co-founders are not thinking about them." - Michael Seibel
The Team Success Formula:
"It's the best founders, the best CEOs understand that this small team has to accomplish a lot or else the whole endeavor isn't going to work." - Michael Seibel
Equity as a Tool, Not a Reward:
"The best founders are using equity to try their best to motivate people to work extremely hard. They're not thinking about equity as something that should be hoarded. They're thinking about equity as a tool that can produce maximum motivation for a small number of people." - Michael Seibel
📊 Why Performance-Based Equity Is a Terrible Idea?
The Innovation Trap in Equity Distribution
"Oh, we should have performance-based equity... if my CTO writes this number of lines of code or if the founder doing sales generates a million dollars in revenue, we'll set their equity based on that." - Michael Seibel
Why This Doesn't Work:
The Goal-Setting Problem:
- Unclear how to set goals at the beginning of a tech startup journey
- Goals constantly change as companies pivot and evolve
- Measuring things precisely at the start is a big fallacy
"At the beginning of the journey of a tech startup, it's really unclear how to set those types of goals and those goals change. We see companies pivoting." - Michael Seibel
The Innovation Fallacy:
"This is probably not an area that you should be innovating on. You should be innovating on your product and how you interact with your customers. Distributing equity, there are best practices that tend to work." - Michael Seibel
Why Stick to Best Practices:
Performance-based equity sounds smart but creates complexity where simplicity works better. Your energy should go into building products customers love, not creating complicated equity formulas.
⏰ Can Part-Time Founders Really Be Founders?
The Full-Time Commitment Reality
The uncomfortable truth about part-time founders that most people don't want to hear.
The Blunt Assessment:
"I would argue that a part-time founder isn't a founder and shouldn't really be considered in this equation." - Michael Seibel
The Successful Company Pattern:
"If you look at the most viable companies in the world, you don't see a lot of prevalence of part-time founders." - Michael Seibel
The Commitment Standard:
"If you want to be a founder, you should be working full-time." - Michael Seibel
Edge Cases Don't Change the Rule:
While there might be some edge cases with part-time arrangements or people who "swap in and swap out," these are exceptions that prove the rule rather than viable strategies for building great companies.
The Viability Test:
Look at the companies that have built massive value over decades - the pattern is clear. Full-time commitment from the founding team isn't negotiable if you want to compete at the highest levels.
🎯 Why Dynamic Equity Agreements Are Too Fancy and Poorly Advised?
The Clarity vs. Complexity Problem
"What about dynamic equity agreements where the equity isn't really set and depends on future company accomplishments?" These sound sophisticated but create motivation problems.
The Motivation Psychology:
"If you're trying to motivate people, it's really nice for them to know what they have, and especially founders... they're going to be a lot more motivated if they know what they have when they're starting versus some weird kind of thing that's like hard to define and the rules might change." - Michael Seibel
Why People Create Complex Systems:
"These options are too fancy and poorly advised. Often times they're created because people don't understand the value of vesting and a cliff." - Michael Seibel
Your Real Protection:
"If founder relationship isn't working out, that founder should leave or be fired and that should happen before the cliff. That's your protection... not fancy formulas and weird kind of made-up stuff." - Michael Seibel
The Wherewithal Test:
"If you don't have the wherewithal to ask a co-founder to leave if they're not performing, or as a co-founder if you realize that you're not able to perform, if you don't have the wherewithal to leave on your own accord, you shouldn't be doing this." - Michael Seibel
The Respect Factor:
"You're not respecting how hard this is and how much work your co-founders are putting into it. That's why vesting and cliffs work... that gives you the ability to be generous with your equity as opposed to create fancy schemes." - Michael Seibel
🏆 Why Should You Be Generous Even If You End Up Being the "Jeff Bezos"?
The Long-Term Success Paradox
Even in massively successful companies, one founder often sticks around longer and becomes more valuable over 10-15 years. Shouldn't they deserve vastly more equity?
The Success Pattern:
"One common thing that you see among successful companies is that over the long term, over 10, over 15 years, one founder will often stick with the company a lot longer, be more responsible for a lot longer, and you could argue was more valuable to the company." - Michael Seibel
Famous Examples:
- Amazon and Jeff Bezos
- Facebook and Mark Zuckerberg
- Other long-term founder success stories
The Counter-Intuitive Truth:
"Here's the tricky bit about that... with tech startups, the beginning is extremely important. Those first four to six years is where a lot of value is being created and those first four to six years is when most companies die." - Michael Seibel
The Early Years Reality:
"Even if you're in this lucky situation of your company being massively successful and you being the one who stays around the longest, you still want to be extremely generous with co-founder equity." - Michael Seibel
The Activation Energy Principle:
"Those co-founders actually got you the energy of activation your company needed to even be in the game, and without them maybe you're not in the game at all and you don't get to see this company scale to something great." - Michael Seibel
The Foundation Matters:
"You should really understand how important the early years are and the co-founders are and co-founder motivation is to making successful products happen." - Michael Seibel
The Ultimate Goal:
"You should use your co-founder equity to give yourself the best chance of building something that people want. After that, hey man, you're off to the races. You're doing better than 99% of other startups and of course the rules change." - Michael Seibel
💎 Key Insights
Essential Insights:
- All bad equity justifications stem from short-term thinking - Whether it's experience, fundraising, or timing advantages, the pattern is always optimizing for today instead of long-term motivation
- The first 4-6 years are where most value gets created and most companies die - Even future "Jeff Bezos" types need generous co-founder equity because those early co-founders provide the activation energy to even stay in the game
- Equity is a motivation tool, not a reward system - Best founders don't hoard equity; they use it strategically to produce maximum motivation from their small team
Actionable Insights:
- Avoid performance-based equity schemes - Focus innovation on products and customers, not complicated equity formulas that create uncertainty
- Reject part-time founder arrangements - Successful companies require full-time commitment from all founders
- Skip dynamic equity agreements - Clear, known equity stakes motivate better than complex, changing formulas
- Use vesting and cliffs as your protection - These proven mechanisms eliminate the need for fancy schemes
- Think like a long-term founder - Consider co-founders' needs even when they don't, because small teams must accomplish massive goals together
- Remember the activation energy principle - Early co-founders get you into the game; without them, you might never reach the success where equity splits matter
📚 References
People Mentioned:
- Michael Seibel - YC Group Partner providing final thoughts on equity distribution philosophy and debunking common bad advice
- Jeff Bezos - Amazon founder used as example of long-term founder success and why early generosity still matters
- Mark Zuckerberg - Facebook founder cited as another example of founders who stay longer but shouldn't penalize early co-founders
Companies & Organizations:
- Amazon - Example of successful company where one founder stayed much longer but early team was still crucial
- Facebook - Another example of long-term founder success built on early team collaboration
- Y Combinator (YC) - Startup accelerator providing best practices for equity distribution
Concepts & Frameworks:
- Performance-Based Equity - Flawed approach that creates uncertainty instead of motivation in early-stage startups
- Dynamic Equity Agreements - Complex systems that sound sophisticated but reduce founder motivation through uncertainty
- Part-Time Founder Model - Arrangement that doesn't work for building viable, successful companies
- Activation Energy Principle - Concept that early co-founders provide essential energy to get companies into the success game
- Long-Term vs. Short-Term Thinking - Fundamental mindset difference that separates successful founders from those who fail
- Four to Six Year Value Creation Window - Critical period where most startup value gets created and most companies either succeed or die